Wednesday, July 30, 2014

The Lord's Prayer - Lesson 4: Our Father in Heaven

The Lord’s Prayer
Lesson 4: Our Father in Heaven


Our Father in heaven,
Hallowed be your name;
Your kingdom come;
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
And forgive us our debts as we also have forgiven our debtors;
And do not lead us into temptation,
But deliver us from the evil.
For yours is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.
Amen.


Matthew 6:9a Pray like this: ‘Our Father in heaven,

Luke 11:1-2a [1] When he finished praying in a certain place, one of his disciples said to him, “Lord, teach us to pray, just as John also taught his disciples.” [2] He said to them, “When you pray, say, ‘Our Father in heaven,


The Main Points for This Lesson:

Pray in this way. The Lord's Prayer comes from God. Jesus taught us to pray in this way (Matthew 6:9), and even to say (Luke 11:2) this prayer. We should know, understand, and use the Lord's Prayer.

Our. One word and concept that is found in this prayer is the “our.”

This “our” reminds us that we are part of a family of believers, with brothers and sisters. Pride and separation, or distancing ourselves (Proverbs 18:1) from fellow disciples, are contrary to God's will. Unity should be sought and maintained by walking in humility and love. God calls us to this.

As we pray this prayer for ourselves, we should pray this prayer for others. We should pray this prayer privately in our closet, and we should pray this prayer with others.

Father. God is the Father of his people, of those who have turned from sin to do the will of God. Such people are born of God by the word of God. When we pray “our Father,” such a prayer should both reflect and call forth actions in us: Love for such a Father; Thanksgiving to such a Father; Holy fear of this Father; Obedience to such a Father.

We should remember who God is to us. He is our Father. As such, he is our creator (both in giving natural life, and in giving us new birth), our provider, our authority, the one who disciplines us, etc. The title “father” speaks of love and compassion. It speaks of relationship. Jesus said that eternal life is to know the Father and the One whom he has sent (John 17:3). This and more should call forth love, thanksgiving, fear and obedience.

We should remember who we are to God, and who we should be to God. God gives birth to children not in name only, but in power as well. Because of God's great love, we may be called sons of God. We may also live and act as children of God. Jesus said that when we love our enemies, and do good to those around us without looking for earthly rewards, then we are children of our Father in heaven. If we call God “Father,” but do not live as God's children should live, we are taking his name in vain (this becomes more clear as we consider that our Father has given us all we need for life and godliness). This and more should call forth love, thanksgiving, fear and obedience.

In heaven. When we call upon God as our Father, we remember that he is in heaven. We learn by such a prayer that we should both live a heavenly life and aim to live a heavenly life. What is meant by a heavenly life? As the saints of old, we too should live as strangers and pilgrims in this world, looking forward to and loving our home in heaven far above this earthly life. As Jesus taught, we should not lay up treasure on earth, by making our goals center on this life, its possessions and rewards. Rather, we should lay up treasure in heaven, by making our goals center on the next life, its eternal possessions and rewards. We should live for the kingdom of heaven, for God's kingdom, and not for this world. That is, we should make choices, and live, in keeping with God's eternal priorities first and foremost.


Suggestions:

Open each lesson with prayer for the teacher and the students and this class time.

Begin by reminding the children that we are learning about the Lord's Prayer.

Read the verses in Matthew 5:9a and Luke 11:1-2. Ask what is meant by “pray like this,” and “when you pray, say.”

Talk about the three main ideas in this first part of the pray itself, “our,” “Father,” and “in heaven.” Use questions to help the children think of these things. When do you usually use the word “our”? Why do you think Jesus taught us to use the word “our” in this prayer? What is a father? How is God our Father? In what way is a Christian a child of God? Where is God according to the Lord's Prayer? Did Jesus teach anything about heaven?

Use the portion from 1 Corinthians 12:12-26 to illustrate the concept of one family, one body, with one Father, and how this should direct our prayers. Questions: Which parts of your body are important? Which parts are not important? How is the church like a body? Which parts of God's body, or family, are important? Which parts can we ignore are mistreat? Who should we pray for? Who should we pray with?

Use the story from Luke 15:11-32 to talk about the idea of God as our Father, and we as his children. Questions: Did the younger son honor his father? How did he dishonor him? Did the younger son understand that he had dishonored his father? Why do you think this? What was the father's response to the son when he repented, that is, when he left his sin to return to serve his father?

Close the lesson with prayer related to the subject and the students. Pray the Lord's Prayer together.


Stories:

1 Corinthians 12:12-26 [12] For as the body is one, and has many members, and all the members of the body, being many, are one body; so also is Christ. [13] For in one Spirit we were all baptized into one body, whether Jews or Greeks, whether bond or free; and were all given to drink into one Spirit. [14] For the body is not one member, but many. [15] If the foot would say, “Because I’m not the hand, I’m not part of the body,” it is not therefore not part of the body. [16] If the ear would say, “Because I’m not the eye, I’m not part of the body,” it’s not therefore not part of the body. [17] If the whole body were an eye, where would the hearing be? If the whole were hearing, where would the smelling be? [18] But now God has set the members, each one of them, in the body, just as he desired. [19] If they were all one member, where would the body be? [20] But now they are many members, but one body. [21] The eye can’t tell the hand, “I have no need for you,” or again the head to the feet, “I have no need for you.” [22] No, much rather, those members of the body which seem to be weaker are necessary. [23] Those parts of the body which we think to be less honorable, on those we bestow more abundant honor; and our unpresentable parts have more abundant propriety; [24] whereas our presentable parts have no such need. But God composed the body together, giving more abundant honor to the inferior part, [25] that there should be no division in the body, but that the members should have the same care for one another. [26] When one member suffers, all the members suffer with it. Or when one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it.
While this is not really a story, it may still be used to illustrate the thought of the “our” in the Lord's Prayer. It does not use the picture of a family, but the picture of a body with its various parts may help to show the importance of praying this prayer both for and with one another.

Luke 15:11-32 [11] He said, “A certain man had two sons. [12] The younger of them said to his father, ‘Father, give me my share of your property.’ He divided his livelihood between them. [13] Not many days after, the younger son gathered all of this together and traveled into a far country. There he wasted his property with riotous living. [14] When he had spent all of it, there arose a severe famine in that country, and he began to be in need. [15] He went and joined himself to one of the citizens of that country, and he sent him into his fields to feed pigs. [16] He wanted to fill his belly with the husks that the pigs ate, but no one gave him any. [17] But when he came to himself he said, ‘How many hired servants of my father’s have bread enough to spare, and I’m dying with hunger! [18] I will get up and go to my father, and will tell him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight. [19] I am no more worthy to be called your son. Make me as one of your hired servants.”’ [20] “He arose, and came to his father. But while he was still far off, his father saw him, and was moved with compassion, and ran, and fell on his neck, and kissed him. [21] The son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven, and in your sight. I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ [22] “But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring out the best robe, and put it on him. Put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. [23] Bring the fattened calf, kill it, and let us eat, and celebrate; [24] for this, my son, was dead, and is alive again. He was lost, and is found.’ They began to celebrate. [25] “Now his elder son was in the field. As he came near to the house, he heard music and dancing. [26] He called one of the servants to him, and asked what was going on. [27] He said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf, because he has received him back safe and healthy.’ [28] But he was angry, and would not go in. Therefore his father came out, and begged him. [29] But he answered his father, ‘Behold, these many years I have served you, and I never disobeyed a commandment of yours, but you never gave me a goat, that I might celebrate with my friends. [30] But when this, your son, came, who has devoured your living with prostitutes, you killed the fattened calf for him.’ [31] “He said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. [32] But it was appropriate to celebrate and be glad, for this, your brother, was dead, and is alive again. He was lost, and is found.’”
This story may help to illustrate both the idea of God as our Father, and the humility of God's children as they come to him, as the prodigal son humbly returned to his father, recognizing that he was no longer worthy to be called his son.


More Stories and Examples:

Genesis 40:14 But remember me when it will be well with you, and please show kindness to me, and make mention of me to Pharaoh, and bring me out of this house. [see Genesis 40:1-23 for full story]
Joseph was is prison. After interpreting the chief cupbearer's dream, he makes the above request or plea to him. As the cupbearer should have remembered Joseph, this is a picture of what should be on the heart of Christian's as we pray to God the prayer taught to us by our Lord. Is it not Jesus' intention that we should remember the weak, the fainting, the persecuted, the hungry, the sick, the tempted, etc., when we pray “give us daily bread,” “forgive us our debts,” “deliver us from the evil”?

Matthew 13:24-30 [24] He set another parable before them, saying, “The Kingdom of Heaven is like a man who sowed good seed in his field, [25] but while people slept, his enemy came and sowed darnel weeds also among the wheat, and went away. [26] But when the blade sprang up and produced fruit, then the darnel weeds appeared also. [27] The servants of the householder came and said to him, ‘Sir, didn’t you sow good seed in your field? Where did this darnel come from?’ [28] “He said to them, ‘An enemy has done this.’ “The servants asked him, ‘Do you want us to go and gather them up?’ [29] “But he said, ‘No, lest perhaps while you gather up the darnel weeds, you root up the wheat with them. [30] Let both grow together until the harvest, and in the harvest time I will tell the reapers, “First, gather up the darnel weeds, and bind them in bundles to burn them; but gather the wheat into my barn.”’”
Matthew 13:36-43 [36] Then Jesus sent the multitudes away, and went into the house. His disciples came to him, saying, “Explain to us the parable of the darnel weeds of the field.” [37] He answered them, “He who sows the good seed is the Son of Man, [38] the field is the world; and the good seed, these are the children of the Kingdom; and the darnel weeds are the children of the evil one. [39] The enemy who sowed them is the devil. The harvest is the end of the age, and the reapers are angels. [40] As therefore the darnel weeds are gathered up and burned with fire; so will it be at the end of this age. [41] The Son of Man will send out his angels, and they will gather out of his Kingdom all things that cause stumbling, and those who do iniquity, [42] and will cast them into the furnace of fire. There will be weeping and the gnashing of teeth. [43] Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the Kingdom of their Father. He who has ears to hear, let him hear.
This story may be more fitting for the lesson on “your kingdom come.” That said, it does speak about the children of the kingdom, and the kingdom of their Father. May we learn to seek first and treasure that kingdom above all others.


Other Verses:

OUR

Proverbs 18:1 [ASV] He that separateth himself seeketh his own desire, And rageth against all sound wisdom.

Matthew 18:19 Again, assuredly I tell you, that if two of you will agree on earth concerning anything that they will ask, it will be done for them by my Father who is in heaven.

1 Timothy 2:8 I desire therefore that the men in every place pray, lifting up holy hands without anger and doubting.

James 5:16 Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.

Galatians 6:10 So then, as we have opportunity, let’s do what is good toward all men, and especially toward those who are of the household of the faith.

Ephesians 2:19-20 [19] So then you are no longer strangers and foreigners, but you are fellow citizens with the saints, and of the household of God, [20] being built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the chief cornerstone;

Ephesians 4:1-6 [1] I therefore, the prisoner in the Lord, beg you to walk worthily of the calling with which you were called, [2] with all lowliness and humility, with patience, bearing with one another in love; [3] being eager to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. [4] There is one body, and one Spirit, even as you also were called in one hope of your calling; [5] one Lord, one faith, one baptism, [6] one God and Father of all, who is over all, and through all, and in us all.

Ephesians 6:18 with all prayer and requests, praying at all times in the Spirit, and being watchful to this end in all perseverance and requests for all the saints:

Hebrews 13:3 Remember those who are in bonds, as bound with them; and those who are ill-treated, since you are also in the body.

Jude 20-21 [20] But you, beloved, keep building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Spirit. [21] Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to eternal life.


FATHER

Genesis 2:7 Yahweh God formed man from the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul.
Our Father is the creator of all mankind.

Psalm 103:13-14 [13] Like a father has compassion on his children, so Yahweh has compassion on those who fear him. [14] For he knows how we are made. He remembers that we are dust.
Our Father has compassion on those who fear him. He know our condition.

Matthew 6:8 Therefore don’t be like them, for your Father knows what things you need, before you ask him.
Our Father knows what we need, before we ask him.

Matthew 6:14 “For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you.
Our Father forgives us when we forgive others.

Matthew 7:11 If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!
Our Father gives good things to those who ask him.

Matthew 18:12-14 [12] “What do you think? If a man has one hundred sheep, and one of them goes astray, doesn’t he leave the ninety-nine, go to the mountains, and seek that which has gone astray? [13] If he finds it, most certainly I tell you, he rejoices over it more than over the ninety-nine which have not gone astray. [14] Even so it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish.
It is not the will of our Father that one of these little ones should perish.

Luke 11:11-13 [11] “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, he won’t give him a snake instead of a fish, will he? [12] Or if he asks for an egg, he won’t give him a scorpion, will he? [13] If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?

James 1:17-18 [17] Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom can be no variation, nor turning shadow. [18] Of his own will he gave birth to us by the word of truth, that we should be a kind of first fruits of his creatures.
Our Father gives good and perfect gifts. He gave us new birth through his holy word.

James 1:27 Pure religion and undefiled before our God and Father is this: to visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained by the world.
Our God is our God and Father.

Hebrews 12:4-11 [4] You have not yet resisted to blood, striving against sin; [5] and you have forgotten the exhortation which reasons with you as with children, “My son, don’t take lightly the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when you are reproved by him; [6] For whom the Lord loves, he chastens, and scourges every son whom he receives.” [7] It is for discipline that you endure. God deals with you as with children, for what son is there whom his father doesn’t discipline? [8] But if you are without discipline, of which all have been made partakers, then are you illegitimate, and not children. [9] Furthermore, we had the fathers of our flesh to chasten us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much rather be in subjection to the Father of spirits, and live? [10] For they indeed, for a few days, punished us as seemed good to them; but he for our profit, that we may be partakers of his holiness. [11] All chastening seems for the present to be not joyous but grievous; yet afterward it yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness to those who have been exercised thereby.
Our Father disciplines us and teaches us the right path to life.

1 John 3:1 [1] See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God! For this cause the world doesn’t know us, because it didn’t know him.


CHILDREN OF OUR FATHER

Isaiah 1:2 Hear, heavens, and listen, earth; for Yahweh has spoken: “I have nourished and brought up children, and they have rebelled against me.

Malachi 1:6A son honors his father, and a servant his master. If I am a father, then where is my honor? And if I am a master, where is the respect due me? Says Yahweh of Armies to you, priests, who despise my name. You say, ‘How have we despised your name?’

Matthew 5:43-48 [43] “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor, and hate your enemy.’ [44] But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you, [45] that you may be children of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the just and the unjust. [46] For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Don’t even the tax collectors do the same? [47] If you only greet your friends, what more do you do than others? Don’t even the tax collectors do the same? [48] Therefore you shall be perfect, just as your Father in heaven is perfect.

Matthew 12:46-50 [46] While he was yet speaking to the multitudes, behold, his mother and his brothers stood outside, seeking to speak to him. [47] One said to him, “Behold, your mother and your brothers stand outside, seeking to speak to you.” [48] But he answered him who spoke to him, “Who is my mother? Who are my brothers?” [49] He stretched out his hand towards his disciples, and said, “Behold, my mother and my brothers! [50] For whoever does the will of my Father who is in heaven, he is my brother, and sister, and mother.”

Matthew 18:1-4 [1] In that hour the disciples came to Jesus, saying, “Who then is greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven?” [2] Jesus called a little child to himself, and set him in their midst, [3] and said, “Most certainly I tell you, unless you turn, and become as little children, you will in no way enter into the Kingdom of Heaven. [4] Whoever therefore humbles himself as this little child, the same is the greatest in the Kingdom of Heaven.
We must humble ourselves as little children to enter the kingdom of heaven.

Luke 6:27-36 [27] “But I tell you who hear: love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, [28] bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you. [29] To him who strikes you on the cheek, offer also the other; and from him who takes away your cloak, don’t withhold your coat also. [30] Give to everyone who asks you, and don’t ask him who takes away your goods to give them back again. [31] “As you would like people to do to you, do exactly so to them. [32] If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. [33] If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. [34] If you lend to those from whom you hope to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to receive back as much. [35] But love your enemies, and do good, and lend, expecting nothing back; and your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High; for he is kind toward the unthankful and evil. [36] “Therefore be merciful, even as your Father is also merciful.

John 1:10-13 [10] He was in the world, and the world was made through him, and the world didn’t recognize him. [11] He came to his own, and those who were his own didn’t receive him. [12] But as many as received him, to them he gave the right to become God’s children, to those who believe in his name: [13] who were born not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
John 1:12-13 [KJV] [12] But as many as received him, to them gave he power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name: [13] Which were born, not of blood, nor of the will of the flesh, nor of the will of man, but of God.
Through Jesus Christ, God gave us the “right” to become God's children (v12). He cleared all the legal roadblocks, so that if we turn from sin to follow Jesus, we can become children of God. Becoming and being a child of God is not simply a legal transaction, having no relation to our nature and actions (our thoughts, words and deeds). God, through Christ Jesus, did not just give us the “right,” but also the “power” to become children of God (v12). Jesus taught that if we love our enemies and do good, seeking no earthly reward, we will be children of the Most High (Luke 6:35). We were not given only an impotent “right” to become children of God, while remaining in every other way children of the devil (1 John 3:10). We were given both the “right” and the “power” to become children of God. Hence, God's children are not only able, but expected, to live like their Father in heaven.

Romans 8:13-17 [13] For if you live after the flesh, you must die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the deeds of the body, you will live. [14] For as many as are led by the Spirit of God, these are children of God. [15] For you didn’t receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” [16] The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are children of God; [17] and if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint heirs with Christ; if indeed we suffer with him, that we may also be glorified with him.
Note the conditions given in these verses. The children of God are those who are led by the Spirit of God, that is, those who do not live after the flesh, but put to death the deeds of the body. Such people are the children of God (vv13-14). Further, the apostle Paul writes that the Spirit testifies that we are children of God. To whom does the Spirit testify this? It testifies this to those who suffer with Christ (vv16-17). Those who suffer with Christ may have confidence that they are children of God, as the Spirit of God testifies with our spirit about this.

2 Corinthians 6:14-18 [14] Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? [15] What agreement has Christ with Belial? Or what portion has a believer with an unbeliever? [16] What agreement has a temple of God with idols? For you are a temple of the living God. Even as God said, “I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they will be my people.” [17] Therefore “‘Come out from among them, and be separate,’ says the Lord. ‘Touch no unclean thing. I will receive you. [18] I will be to you a Father. You will be to me sons and daughters,’ says the Lord Almighty.”

1 Peter 1:13-19 [13] Therefore prepare your minds for action, be sober and set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ— [14] as children of obedience, not conforming yourselves according to your former lusts as in your ignorance, [15] but just as he who called you is holy, you yourselves also be holy in all of your behavior; [16] because it is written, “You shall be holy; for I am holy.” [17] If you call on him as Father, who without respect of persons judges according to each man’s work, pass the time of your living as foreigners here in reverent fear: [18] knowing that you were redeemed, not with corruptible things, with silver or gold, from the useless way of life handed down from your fathers, [19] but with precious blood, as of a faultless and pure lamb, the blood of Christ;
If we call God Father, we should walk in the fear of the Lord as strangers in this world. Our Father in not just the one who disciplines us for our eternal good, but he is also the final and impartial judge of all the earth, who will judge each man's work.

1 John 2:15 Don’t love the world, neither the things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, the Father’s love isn’t in him.

1 John 3:1-10 [1] See how great a love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God! For this cause the world doesn’t know us, because it didn’t know him. [2] Beloved, now we are children of God, and it is not yet revealed what we will be. But we know that, when he is revealed, we will be like him; for we will see him just as he is. [3] Everyone who has this hope set on him purifies himself, even as he is pure. [4] Everyone who sins also commits lawlessness. Sin is lawlessness. [5] You know that he was revealed to take away our sins, and in him is no sin. [6] Whoever remains in him doesn’t sin. Whoever sins hasn’t seen him, neither knows him. [7] Little children, let no one lead you astray. He who does righteousness is righteous, even as he is righteous. [8] He who sins is of the devil, for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. To this end the Son of God was revealed, that he might destroy the works of the devil. [9] Whoever is born of God doesn’t commit sin, because his seed remains in him; and he can’t sin, because he is born of God. [10] In this the children of God are revealed, and the children of the devil. Whoever doesn’t do righteousness is not of God, neither is he who doesn’t love his brother.
Here the apostle John speaks of the great love of God given to us that we should be called children of God. God gave his only son that we may become his children. John goes further, giving us measures by which we may judge ourselves rightly (and perhaps see with clearer discernment the claims of others). Those who do righteousness and love their brother may have some confidence that they are children of God. We are told that those who do not practice righteousness, but continue on in their sin are not children of God. Instead, they belong to the devil.


IN HEAVEN

Matthew 6:19-21 [19] “Don’t lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; [20] but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves don’t break through and steal; [21] for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Matthew 10:32-33 [32] Everyone therefore who confesses me before men, him I will also confess before my Father who is in heaven. [33] But whoever denies me before men, him I will also deny before my Father who is in heaven.

Philippians 3:17-21 [17] Brothers, be imitators together of me, and note those who walk this way, even as you have us for an example. [18] For many walk, of whom I told you often, and now tell you even weeping, as the enemies of the cross of Christ, [19] whose end is destruction, whose god is the belly, and whose glory is in their shame, who think about earthly things. [20] For our citizenship is in heaven, from where we also wait for a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ, [21] who will change the body of our humiliation to be conformed to the body of his glory, according to the working by which he is able even to subject all things to himself.

Colossians 3:1-3 [1] If then you were raised together with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated on the right hand of God. [2] Set your mind on the things that are above, not on the things that are on the earth. [3] For you died, and your life is hidden with Christ in God.

Hebrews 11:13-16 [13] These all died in faith, not having received the promises, but having seen them and embraced them from afar, and having confessed that they were strangers and pilgrims on the earth. [14] For those who say such things make it clear that they are seeking a country of their own. [15] If indeed they had been thinking of that country from which they went out, they would have had enough time to return. [16] But now they desire a better country, that is, a heavenly one. Therefore God is not ashamed of them, to be called their God, for he has prepared a city for them.


Wednesday, July 23, 2014

The Lord's Prayer - Lesson 3: Vain Repetition and Persistence

The Lord’s Prayer
Lesson 3: Vain Repetition and Persistence


Our Father in heaven,
Hallowed be your name;
Your kingdom come;
Your will be done,
On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
And forgive us our debts as we also have forgiven our debtors;
And do not lead us into temptation,
But deliver us from the evil.
For yours is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.
Amen.


Matthew 6:7-8 [7] In praying, don’t use vain repetitions, as the Gentiles do; for they think that they will be heard for their much speaking. [8] Therefore don’t be like them, for your Father knows what things you need, before you ask him.

Luke 18:1 [1] He also spoke a parable to them that they must always pray, and not give up,


The Main Points for This Lesson:

Vain Repetitions and Many Words.

In prayer, we should not use many words. Prayer is not better when we use many words. We should use less words for at least two reasons: One, God has told us to use few words (Ecclesiastes 5:2); Two, our Father in heaven already knows what things we need before we ask him (Matthew 6:8).

In prayer, we should not use empty or meaningless words and phrases. The Lord's Prayer is good to repeat as a prayer, but we should repeat it with understanding of its meaning. We should not repeat it as magical words that somehow command God's attention regardless of their meaning and our intention. “Abracadabra” is a meaningless word that we pretend is magic. If we say this nonsense word, something magical will happen. The Lord's Prayer is not like this. It is not a collection of nonsense words. We should learn to understand them. We should pray them because we agree with their meaning and intention in our own thoughts, words and deeds.

A further note regarding vain repetition. This exhortation against vain repetition in prayer does not mean we should therefore never use written prayers in our praying. After giving this instruction, Jesus then gave his disciples a form of prayer which he expected them to pray (Luke 11:2). It is not wrong to use a form of prayer, or a written prayer. Many Christians and Christian groups over the centuries have produced collections of written prayers. Many of the Psalms are in fact prayers that are written down. The use of such forms in our praying can be helpful. However, in using such we ought to be watchful in our prayers (Colossians 4:2), lest they become empty words to us, lest they become vain repetition.

In prayer, we should not try to use fancy words to impress others. Fancy words are not necessarily wrong in and of themselves. It is wrong to try to impress others with our prayers. Perhaps you may feel pressure from yourself or from others to pray eloquent prayers that others think are great. Beware of this. If you give in to such pressure, you will soon fall into the trap of the hypocrites who try to impress men instead of seeking to be heard by God (Matthew 6:5).

Persistence in Prayer. While we should not use vain repetitions or many words, we should persist, or persevere in prayer.

We should persist in prayer for what is good and needful. God's word (the Bible) in general, and the Lord's Prayer more specifically, teach us what is good and needful.

We should persist in prayer for what is according to God's will. Again, the Lord's Prayer teaches us God's will. The church prayed persistently for Peter when he was in prison (Acts 12:5). God heard their prayer and delivered Peter from the evil without. Paul prayed persistently that a thorn in his flesh be removed (2 Corinthians 12:8). While God did not remove the thorn, he did hear Paul's prayer and provide a different way of deliverance from the evil within (2 Corinthians 12:9).

We should persist in prayer in general. Even when there seems to be no pressing matter in our own lives, we should still be faithful to pray as Daniel did three times a day (Daniel 6:10), and as the early Christians gathered at the hour of prayer. What should we pray? We should ask God to grant the petitions of the Lord's prayer. In truth, the matters of the Lord's Prayer are always pressing, and should come to be the pressing matters on our own hearts.


Suggestions:

Open each lesson with prayer for the teacher and the students and this class time.

Read the verses in Matthew 6:7-8 and Luke 18:1.

Talk with the children for a short time about prayer. Help them to understand in a simple way about what God says about prayer and using many words, and using empty words. Help them to understand also about persistence (or perseverance) in prayer in a simple way. The stories will help to explain and illustrate more fully.

Read the stories from Luke 11:5-13 and Luke 18:1-8. Ask the children simple questions about many words and persistence from the stories, such as: Did the man in need and the widow use long and empty phrases, or did they use simple and plain words to ask for help? What did they ask for? Was it good or bad? Did they persist? What happened when they persisted?

If you have time, read the stories from Mark 10:46-52 about Bartimaeus and from Matthew 15:21-28 about the Canaanite woman. Use these stories to help explain and illustrate for the children both ideas of using few and simple words, and persisting in prayer, even when it seems God will now listen. You can use with the children questions similar to those for the previous stories.

Close the lesson with prayer related to the subject and the students. Pray the Lord's Prayer together.



Stories:

Luke 11:5-13 [5] He said to them, “Which of you, if you go to a friend at midnight, and tell him, ‘Friend, lend me three loaves of bread, [6] for a friend of mine has come to me from a journey, and I have nothing to set before him,’ [7] and he from within will answer and say, ‘Don’t bother me. The door is now shut, and my children are with me in bed. I can’t get up and give it to you’? [8] I tell you, although he will not rise and give it to him because he is his friend, yet because of his persistence, he will get up and give him as many as he needs. [9] “I tell you, keep asking, and it will be given you. Keep seeking, and you will find. Keep knocking, and it will be opened to you. [10] For everyone who asks receives. He who seeks finds. To him who knocks it will be opened. [11] “Which of you fathers, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, he won’t give him a snake instead of a fish, will he? [12] Or if he asks for an egg, he won’t give him a scorpion, will he? [13] If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?”

Luke 18:1-8 [1] He also spoke a parable to them that they must always pray, and not give up, [2] saying, “There was a judge in a certain city who didn’t fear God, and didn’t respect man. [3] A widow was in that city, and she often came to him, saying, ‘Defend me from my adversary!’ [4] He wouldn’t for a while, but afterward he said to himself, ‘Though I neither fear God, nor respect man, [5] yet because this widow bothers me, I will defend her, or else she will wear me out by her continual coming.’” [6] The Lord said, “Listen to what the unrighteous judge says. [7] Won’t God avenge his chosen ones, who are crying out to him day and night, and yet he exercises patience with them? [8] I tell you that he will avenge them quickly. Nevertheless, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on the earth?”

Mark 10:46-52
Bartimaeus persisted in asking Jesus for help. When some told him to be quiet, to not bother the Lord, he cried out all the more to Jesus for help. This is a good illustration of persistence in prayer. Consider, Bartimaeus was not heard because of fancy words or long prayers. Nor did he use meaningless words. He asked for help from the one who could help him with simple words.

Matthew 15:21-28
This Canaanite women asked Jesus to heal her daughter. When she met one obstacle, she continued to ask. When she met a second obstacle, she persisted in asking. Jesus saw her great faith and answered her petition. This is a good illustration of persistence in prayer.


More Stories and Examples:

Genesis 18:16-33
Abraham persisted in praying for the righteous people in the city of Sodom (v23). God heard his prayer, and delivered righteous Lot and his family from the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah.

** Numbers 22 Balaam was persistent, and yet not in a good matter. His persistence obtained an answer he wanted, but also brought God’s wrath.

Psalm 55:16-17 [16] As for me, I will call on God. Yahweh will save me. [17] Evening, morning, and at noon, I will cry out in distress. He will hear my voice.

Daniel 6:10 When Daniel knew that the writing was signed, he went into his house (now his windows were open in his room toward Jerusalem) and he kneeled on his knees three times a day, and prayed, and gave thanks before his God, as he did before.

Matthew 26:36-46 [36] Then Jesus came with them to a place called Gethsemane, and said to his disciples, “Sit here, while I go there and pray.” [37] He took with him Peter and the two sons of Zebedee, and began to be sorrowful and severely troubled. [38] Then he said to them, “My soul is exceedingly sorrowful, even to death. Stay here, and watch with me.” [39] He went forward a little, fell on his face, and prayed, saying, “My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass away from me; nevertheless, not what I desire, but what you desire.” [40] He came to the disciples, and found them sleeping, and said to Peter, “What, couldn’t you watch with me for one hour? [41] Watch and pray, that you don’t enter into temptation. The spirit indeed is willing, but the flesh is weak.” [42] Again, a second time he went away, and prayed, saying, “My Father, if this cup can’t pass away from me unless I drink it, your desire be done.” [43] He came again and found them sleeping, for their eyes were heavy. [44] He left them again, went away, and prayed a third time, saying the same words. [45] Then he came to his disciples, and said to them, “Sleep on now, and take your rest. Behold, the hour is at hand, and the Son of Man is betrayed into the hands of sinners. [46] Arise, let’s be going. Behold, he who betrays me is at hand.”
On the night of his betrayal, Jesus persisted in prayer. Three times that night he prayed regarding the coming suffering and death on the cross. While he prayed that he might be delivered from the coming evil, he prayed as a greater priority, as he taught his disciples to pray, that the will of the Father would be done.

Acts 2:42 They continued steadfastly in the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and prayer.

Acts 3:1 Peter and John were going up into the temple at the hour of prayer, the ninth hour.


Acts 10:9 Now on the next day as they were on their journey, and got close to the city, Peter went up on the housetop to pray at about noon.


2 Corinthians 12:7-9 [7] By reason of the exceeding greatness of the revelations, that I should not be exalted excessively, there was given to me a thorn in the flesh, a messenger of Satan to torment me, that I should not be exalted excessively. [8] Concerning this thing, I begged the Lord three times that it might depart from me. [9] He has said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me.
The apostle Paul also prayed three times regarded a “thorn in the flesh.”


Other Verses:

2 Chronicles 33:9-13 [9] Manasseh seduced Judah and the inhabitants of Jerusalem, so that they did more evil than the nations whom Yahweh destroyed before the children of Israel did. [10] Yahweh spoke to Manasseh, and to his people; but they gave no heed. [11] Therefore Yahweh brought on them the captains of the army of the king of Assyria, who took Manasseh in chains, and bound him with fetters, and carried him to Babylon. [12] When he was in distress, he begged Yahweh his God, and humbled himself greatly before the God of his fathers. [13] He prayed to him; and he was entreated by him, and heard his supplication, and brought him again to Jerusalem into his kingdom. Then Manasseh knew that Yahweh was God.

Proverbs 10:19 In the multitude of words there is no lack of disobedience, but he who restrains his lips does wisely.

Ecclesiastes 5:1-7 [1] Guard your steps when you go to God’s house; for to draw near to listen is better than to give the sacrifice of fools, for they don’t know that they do evil. [2] Don’t be rash with your mouth, and don’t let your heart be hasty to utter anything before God; for God is in heaven, and you on earth. Therefore let your words be few. [3] For as a dream comes with a multitude of cares, so a fool’s speech with a multitude of words. [4] When you vow a vow to God, don’t defer to pay it; for he has no pleasure in fools. Pay that which you vow. [5] It is better that you should not vow, than that you should vow and not pay. [6] Don’t allow your mouth to lead you into sin. Don’t protest before the messenger that this was a mistake. Why should God be angry at your voice, and destroy the work of your hands? [7] For in the multitude of dreams there are vanities, as well as in many words: but you must fear God.

Isaiah 1:15-17 [15] When you spread out your hands, I will hide my eyes from you. Yes, when you make many prayers, I will not hear. Your hands are full of blood. [16] Wash yourselves, make yourself clean. Put away the evil of your doings from before my eyes. Cease to do evil. [17] Learn to do well. Seek justice. Relieve the oppressed. Judge the fatherless. Plead for the widow.”
In the time of Isaiah, it seems the people were persistent in prayer. Yet, God was unwilling to hear even when they persisted, because of the guilt of their sins and because they had not repented of (turned from) their sins. When there is no humble repentance for sin, persistence in prayer will not gain eternal goals. On the other hand, we are given the example of King Manasseh (2 Chronicles 33:9-13). He was a very wicked king. When he was carried away captive, he humbled himself greatly before and prayed to God. God heard his prayer.

Matthew 7:7-11 [7] “Ask, and it will be given you. Seek, and you will find. Knock, and it will be opened for you. [8] For everyone who asks receives. He who seeks finds. To him who knocks it will be opened. [9] Or who is there among you, who, if his son asks him for bread, will give him a stone? [10] Or if he asks for a fish, who will give him a serpent? [11] If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask him!

Matthew 12:36-37 [36] I tell you that every idle word that men speak, they will give account of it in the day of judgment. [37] For by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”

Matthew 23:13/14 [verse 14 in other manuscripts] “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you devour widows’ houses, and as a pretense you make long prayers. Therefore you will receive greater condemnation.

Luke 6:12 In these days, he went out to the mountain to pray, and he continued all night in prayer to God.
The full story can be read in Luke 6:12-16. When it was time to choose the twelve apostles from his disciples, Jesus went out to the mountain to pray, and continued all night in prayer to God.

Acts 12:5 Peter therefore was kept in the prison, but constant prayer was made by the assembly to God for him.
The full story can be read in Acts 12:1-17. It was the church that offered constant prayer to God for Peter. God heard their prayer, and delivered Peter from the evil that was planned by Herod.


Wednesday, July 16, 2014

The Lord's Prayer - Lesson 2: Praying to be seen by men

The Lord’s Prayer
Lesson 2: Praying to be Seen by Men


Our Father in heaven,
Hallowed be your name;
Your kingdom come;
Your will be done,
  On earth as it is in heaven.
Give us this day our daily bread;
And forgive us our debts as we also have forgiven our debtors;
And do not lead us into temptation,
But deliver us from the evil.
For yours is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever.
Amen.


Matthew 6:5-6 [5] “When you pray, you shall not be as the hypocrites, for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Most certainly, I tell you, they have received their reward. [6] But you, when you pray, enter into your inner room, and having shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.


The Main Points for This Lesson:

We should not use pray to exalt ourselves before men, but should pray so that God may hear and answer our petitions. Does this mean we should not stand and pray, or that we should never pray around other people? No. At times, Jesus went off alone to pray (Matthew 14:23). Other times he prayed when surrounded by people (John 11:41-42). In whatever circumstances he prayed, Jesus did not pray to be seen by men in order to gain their praise. Rather, in his praying, he always sought first his Father's kingdom and righteousness.

Prayer is valuable. God has given his people the privilege of presenting our petitions and requests, along with our praise and thanksgiving, before him. God values the use of this privilege such that he rewards those who use it properly. Hence, Jesus speaks of the Father rewarding those who pray.

This reward comes in more than one form: It may often be the answer to the request made; It includes reward in heaven in the next life; This reward may also be treasures of spiritual blessing that can only come from time spent alone with God in prayer.

This privilege of prayer can be misused. Instead of a means of presenting the sincere requests of a humble heart before God, pray can be misused by using it as a means to exalt self in the eyes of men, to gain praise and approval from men. When prayer is misused in this way, Jesus said that God will not reward those who misuse prayer thus. We ought not to expect that God will hear and answer such prayer.

Two motives for misusing prayer, or roots of temptation that lead to misusing prayer, are pride and (the location of our) treasure. They are often intertwined, such that it is difficult to separate them. First, in pride we exalt ourselves over others, and even over God. We are willing to use even prayer as a tool to exalt ourselves. In pride we use prayer to gain praise from men. Are we praying with pride in our heart or humility? Are we seeking to exalt ourselves, or to humble ourselves and exalt God?

This brings us to the second motive, treasure. What treasure do we value? Where are we laying up treasure? If we value earthly treasure, if we value praise from men more than praise from God, if we want treasure now, even if it is temporal and cheap (compared to real eternal treasure), we will be willing to use prayer to gain such treasure. Many, using prayer to gain treasure now, have gained the passing praise of men. Yet, they have lost the eternal praise from God.

It is important to pray in secret, and it is important to pray with the church. Both are important, and both are a healthy part of a healthy disciple of Jesus Christ. In prayer, there is a time to stand and a time to kneel. In all times, we should guard both our mouths and our hearts, that we may offer up acceptable prayer to God. One danger in prayer is that our words can be right while our heart is not right. This does not mean that we should not use certain words (such as the Lord's Prayer). It does mean that we should make sure our heart is right.

God's word tells us that God hears some prayers and not others. More specifically, it tells us that God hears the prayer of certain people and does not hear the prayer of other certain people. Both the prophets of old and the chosen apostles taught that God hears the prayer of the righteous, but his face is against evildoers. Again, we read that God is opposed to the proud, but gives grace to the humble. James wrote that the effectual prayer of a righteous man accomplishes much. Jesus spoke of a tax collector (a sinner) whose prayer was heard because he humbled himself. Do you want your prayer to come to God's hearing? Walk in obedience, wearing the garment of humility.


Suggestions:

Open each lesson with prayer for the teacher and the students and this class time.

Begin by reminding the children that we are now learning about the Lord's Prayer. Read Matthew 6:5-6 with them. These verses are the focus for this lesson.

Talk with the children about these verses. Ask them questions about them such as: What is wrong with the prayer or praying of the hypocrites? Did they receive a reward, and if so, what reward? Is this a good reward? Why do you think they prayed in this way? Why should we not imitate them? What should we do instead? What reward does God say he will give, what do you think the reward is?

It may be helpful to read Matthew 6:1-6,16-21 with the children when discussing why the hypocrite would pray in this way, and also when discussing what we should do instead.

Read the story in Luke 18:9-14 with the children. Ask the children questions about this story as well. How did each man pray compared with the Jesus' words in Matthew 6:5-6? Who did God hear and answer? What did each man obtain from his prayer? How should we pray?

Close the lesson with prayer related to the subject and the students. Pray the Lord's Prayer together.


Stories:

Matthew 6:1-6,16-21 [1] “Be careful that you don’t do your charitable giving before men, to be seen by them, or else you have no reward from your Father who is in heaven. [2] Therefore when you do merciful deeds, don’t sound a trumpet before yourself, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may get glory from men. Most certainly I tell you, they have received their reward. [3] But when you do merciful deeds, don’t let your left hand know what your right hand does, [4] so that your merciful deeds may be in secret, then your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.
[5] “When you pray, you shall not be as the hypocrites, for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen by men. Most certainly, I tell you, they have received their reward. [6] But you, when you pray, enter into your inner room, and having shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will reward you openly.
[16] “Moreover when you fast, don’t be like the hypocrites, with sad faces. For they disfigure their faces, that they may be seen by men to be fasting. Most certainly I tell you, they have received their reward. [17] But you, when you fast, anoint your head, and wash your face; [18] so that you are not seen by men to be fasting, but by your Father who is in secret, and your Father, who sees in secret, will reward you.
[19] “Don’t lay up treasures for yourselves on the earth, where moth and rust consume, and where thieves break through and steal; [20] but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consume, and where thieves don’t break through and steal; [21] for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

Luke 18:9-14 [9] He spoke also this parable to certain people who were convinced of their own righteousness, and who despised all others. [10] “Two men went up into the temple to pray; one was a Pharisee, and the other was a tax collector. [11] The Pharisee stood and prayed to himself like this: ‘God, I thank you, that I am not like the rest of men, extortionists, unrighteous, adulterers, or even like this tax collector. [12] I fast twice a week. I give tithes of all that I get.’ [13] But the tax collector, standing far away, wouldn’t even lift up his eyes to heaven, but beat his breast, saying, ‘God, be merciful to me, a sinner!’ [14] I tell you, this man went down to his house justified rather than the other; for everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, but he who humbles himself will be exalted.”
It is interesting that Jesus said of the Pharisee that he “prayed to himself.” Jesus does not speak of his prayer as being to God, though the words seem to address God. We are shown a man who used prayer to exalt himself. What did the praise of men gain him, when the righteous judge of all the earth did not hear his prayer, but counted him still guilty? Using prayer in this way, he obtained temporal glory, and everlasting condemnation. The tax collector prayed to God. He humbled himself before God and men. God heard his prayer, and forgave his sins. This tax collector obtained through humility what the Pharisee could not gain through pride.


More Stories and Examples:

Isaiah 38:1-8 [1] In those days was Hezekiah sick and near death. Isaiah the prophet, the son of Amoz, came to him, and said to him, “Thus says Yahweh, ‘Set your house in order, for you will die, and not live.’” [2] Then Hezekiah turned his face to the wall and prayed to Yahweh, [3] and said, “Remember now, Yahweh, I beg you, how I have walked before you in truth and with a perfect heart, and have done that which is good in your sight.” Hezekiah wept bitterly. [4] Then Yahweh’s word came to Isaiah, saying, [5] “Go, and tell Hezekiah, ‘Thus says Yahweh, the God of David your father, “I have heard your prayer. I have seen your tears. Behold, I will add fifteen years to your life. [6] I will deliver you and this city out of the hand of the king of Assyria, and I will defend this city. [7] This shall be the sign to you from Yahweh, that Yahweh will do this thing that he has spoken. [8] Behold, I will cause the shadow on the sundial, which has gone down on the sundial of Ahaz with the sun, to return backward ten steps. So the sun returned ten steps on the sundial on which it had gone down.”’”
Hezekiah did not pray to be seen by men, but prayed to the Lord. The Lord heard the prayer of this righteous king of Israel, and rewarded him greatly.

Daniel 9:1-4,18-22 [1] In the first year of Darius the son of Ahasuerus, of the seed of the Medes, who was made king over the realm of the Chaldeans, [2] in the first year of his reign I, Daniel, understood by the books the number of the years about which Yahweh’s word came to Jeremiah the prophet, for the accomplishing of the desolations of Jerusalem, even seventy years. [3] I set my face to the Lord God, to seek by prayer and petitions, with fasting and sackcloth and ashes. [4] I prayed to Yahweh my God, and made confession, and said, Oh, Lord, the great and dreadful God, who keeps covenant and loving kindness with those who love him and keep his commandments,
[18] My God, turn your ear, and hear; open your eyes, and see our desolations, and the city which is called by your name: for we do not present our petitions before you for our righteousness, but for your great mercies’ sake. [19] Lord, hear; Lord, forgive; Lord, listen and do; don’t defer, for your own sake, my God, because your city and your people are called by your name. [20] While I was speaking, and praying, and confessing my sin and the sin of my people Israel, and presenting my supplication before Yahweh my God for the holy mountain of my God; [21] yes, while I was speaking in prayer, the man Gabriel, whom I had seen in the vision at the beginning, being caused to fly swiftly, touched me about the time of the evening offering. [22] He instructed me, and talked with me, and said, Daniel, I have now come to give you wisdom and understanding.
Daniel prayed to the Lord, and the Lord heard the prayer of this righteous man. The angel Gabriel was sent to speak with Daniel.

Acts 2:41-42 [41] Then those who gladly received his word were baptized. There were added that day about three thousand souls. [42] They continued steadfastly in the apostles’ teaching and fellowship, in the breaking of bread, and prayer.
These first Christians continued steadfastly in prayer. While they must have prayed as individuals in their closets, they must have also gathered together for the purpose of prayer. One is not right and the other wrong. Both secret prayer and corporate prayer is an important and healthy part of the Christian's life. If a Christian prays with the church, but finds not time or desire to pray in their closet, something is wrong. If a Christian prays in secret, but is unwilling to pray with the church, something is wrong in this case as well. The Lord's Prayer is given with such wisdom that it teaches us to pray in secret for all God's people, and also to pray with all God's people in the church.

Haman sought the praise of men, and it lead to his destruction. Mordecai sought to please God, and was exalted. King Saul wanted Samuel to honor him in sacrificing before the people (1 Samuel 15:30). Ananias and Sapphira sought the praise of men, and were struck down (Acts 5:1-10).


Other Verses:

PRAYER GOD HEARS AND DOES NOT HEAR

Psalm 17:1 Hear, Yahweh, my righteous plea; Give ear to my prayer, that doesn’t go out of deceitful lips.
Praying to be seen by men is one example of praying with deceitful lips. Jesus taught us to pray for God's name and God's kingdom. When our words seek the honor of God's name, but our hearts (and actions, including our words) seek our own honor, are we not praying with deceitful lips?

Psalm 66:16-20 [16] Come, and hear, all you who fear God. I will declare what he has done for my soul. [17] I cried to him with my mouth. He was extolled with my tongue. [18] If I cherished sin in my heart, the Lord wouldn’t have listened. [19] But most certainly, God has listened. He has heard the voice of my prayer. [20] Blessed be God, who has not turned away my prayer, nor his loving kindness from me.

Psalm 88:1-2 [1] Yahweh, the God of my salvation, I have cried day and night before you. [2] Let my prayer enter into your presence. Turn your ear to my cry.
The Psalmist is not praying to be seen by men, for he cries to God day and night. He prays at all times, not just when he might be seen by men.

Psalm 141:1-4 [1] Yahweh, I have called on you. Come to me quickly! Listen to my voice when I call to you. [2] Let my prayer be set before you like incense; the lifting up of my hands like the evening sacrifice. [3] Set a watch, Yahweh, before my mouth. Keep the door of my lips. [4] Don’t incline my heart to any evil thing, to practice deeds of wickedness with men who work iniquity. Don’t let me eat of their delicacies.
This Psalm is a prayer. The petitions in verses 3-4 could apply to all of life, we should also consider them in light of prayer. In our praying, we should consider our words (note Matthew 6:7). And in our praying, we should watch our hearts.

Proverbs 15:8 The sacrifice made by the wicked is an abomination to Yahweh, but the prayer of the upright is his delight.

Proverbs 15:29 Yahweh is far from the wicked, but he hears the prayer of the righteous.

Proverbs 28:9 He who turns away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer is an abomination.


Isaiah 1:15 When you spread out your hands, I will hide my eyes from you. Yes, when you make many prayers, I will not hear. Your hands are full of blood.

Isaiah 57:15 For thus says the high and lofty One who inhabits eternity, whose name is Holy: “I dwell in the high and holy place, with him also who is of a contrite and humble spirit, to revive the spirit of the humble, and to revive the heart of the contrite.

Isaiah 66:1-2 [1] Thus says Yahweh, “Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool: what kind of house will you build to me? and what place shall be my rest? [2] For all these things has my hand made, and so all these things came to be,” says Yahweh: “but to this man will I look, even to him who is poor and of a contrite spirit, and who trembles at my word.

James 5:16-18 [16] Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective. [17] Elijah was a man with a nature like ours, and he prayed earnestly that it might not rain, and it didn’t rain on the earth for three years and six months. [18] He prayed again, and the sky gave rain, and the earth produced its fruit.

1 Peter 3:10-12 [10] For, “He who would love life, and see good days, let him keep his tongue from evil, and his lips from speaking deceit. [11] Let him turn away from evil, and do good. Let him seek peace, and pursue it. [12] For the eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears open to their prayer; but the face of the Lord is against those who do evil.”


SEEKING GLORY FROM MEN

Matthew 23:5-7 [5] But all their works they do to be seen by men. They make their phylacteries broad, enlarge the fringes of their garments, [6] and love the place of honor at feasts, the best seats in the synagogues, [7] the salutations in the marketplaces, and to be called ‘Rabbi, Rabbi’ by men.

Luke 16:14-15 [14] The Pharisees, who were lovers of money, also heard all these things, and they scoffed at him. [15] He said to them, “You are those who justify yourselves in the sight of men, but God knows your hearts. For that which is exalted among men is an abomination in the sight of God.

John 5:39-44 [39] “You search the Scriptures, because you think that in them you have eternal life; and these are they which testify about me. [40] Yet you will not come to me, that you may have life. [41] I don’t receive glory from men. [42] But I know you, that you don’t have God’s love in yourselves. [43] I have come in my Father’s name, and you don’t receive me. If another comes in his own name, you will receive him. [44] How can you believe, who receive glory from one another, and you don’t seek the glory that comes from the only God?

John 12:42-43 [42] Nevertheless even of the rulers many believed in him, but because of the Pharisees they didn’t confess it, so that they wouldn’t be put out of the synagogue, [43] for they loved men’s praise more than God’s praise.


OTHER

1 Samuel 2:30 “Therefore Yahweh, the God of Israel, says, ‘I said indeed that your house, and the house of your father, should walk before me forever.’ But now Yahweh says, ‘Be it far from me; for those who honor me I will honor, and those who despise me shall be lightly esteemed.

Psalm 106:13-15 [13] They soon forgot his works. They didn’t wait for his counsel, [14] but gave in to craving in the desert, and tested God in the wasteland. [15] He gave them their request, but sent leanness into their soul.
The people of God sought earthly things (a picture of loving the world) in their prayer to God. God gave them their requests. Their bellies obtained a temporal answer to their petitions, but their souls were were being lost.

Acts 3:1 Peter and John were going up into the temple at the hour of prayer, the ninth hour.

Philippians 2:1-4 [1] If there is therefore any exhortation in Christ, if any consolation of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if any tender mercies and compassion, [2] make my joy full, by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind; [3] doing nothing through rivalry or through conceit, but in humility, each counting others better than himself; [4] each of you not just looking to his own things, but each of you also to the things of others.

1 Peter 5:5-7 [5] Likewise, you younger ones, be subject to the elder. Yes, all of you clothe yourselves with humility, to subject yourselves to one another; for “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” [6] Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time; [7] casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you.

1 John 2:15-17 [15] Don’t love the world, neither the things that are in the world. If anyone loves the world, the Father’s love isn’t in him. [16] For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, isn’t the Father’s, but is the world’s. [17] The world is passing away with its lusts, but he who does God’s will remains forever.


COMMENTS

In prayer, just as in the commandments, God is not simply looking for outward words or your body's posture (sitting, kneeling, standing, etc.).

He is just as concerned with our heart. Are we praying with pride in our heart or humility? Are we seeking to exalt ourselves, or to humble ourselves and exalt God?

A second matter that affects our prayer is treasure. Are we seeking treasure in heaven (eternal treasure), or treasure on earth (instant treasure, but also temporal treasure). Do we desire the instant treasure of praise from men, or do we seek the real and lasting praise from God? If we seek one or the other treasure in some area of life, we will seek it in prayer also. The more we pursue earthly treasure, even praise from men, the more our heart will love the world, and the less we will love God.